Delighted to be invited! Really enjoyed this opportunity to be Guest Speaker, on the bill with Samatha Houghton, (Author, The Invisible Girl) at Yes! Group Nottingham, Personal Development this week.
Thoroughly enjoyed this opportunity, thanks to the invitation from Leader, Sindy Kaur (Power Behind the Mask), to share a little of my story.
Before taking the lovely audience through the 6 Steps to Success in the ‘Destination Me™ Intensive’ programme that I have been gifted to create to help people use visioning reconnect with their Heart, Mind Body and Spirit, recalibrate their Inner Vision Compass and switching on their Success SatNav™ I told a little bit of my story.
My talk ‘How To Use Visioning To Create The Life You REALLY Want’ began with a focus on one particular near death experience that affected me afterwards for two whole years. There were others too, which I didn’t mention, but all of which I now can look upon as gifts because they shaped who I am today and how I truly connected with my more powerful Why! to change the world for the better. Since there’s no way I can do this myself, my mission is to do this through sharing the powerful visioning process I have created as the core of my Destination Me™ Intensive Transformational Change Programme.
Sharing how I had always been mainly optimistic, whenever I could summon the spirit, in the face of childhood and teenage difficulties, how it took this one Significant Emotional Event to really turn my life upside down. It drove me (quite literally) to the darkest place where I had been only once before but never begun to travel down the tunnel, then raised me up higher into the light than ever before. As my life flashed before me, as if in slow motion, the realisation hit me of what I had NOT done and was still desperate to do. Accepting I was going to die, I suddenly heard myself cry out “No I’m not ready to go yet! I haven’t fulfilled my purpose. I WILL CHANGE!”. I awoke in hospital!
Recovery took two years. I didn’t dwell on the dark side let’s just say it was hell on earth! Broken bones eventually healed but the mental damage and suicidal thoughts took longer. After having a #Vision I regained a little bit of optimism and began to focus on healing. I was on a quest for answers and began to search high and low for what was missing (remember my promise? I WILL CHANGE!).
Eventually it came to me. After a lightbulb moment. Months of learning followed, devouring books on psychology, the brain, #Vision, spirituality, meditation, leadership, NLP, CBT (and doing all the exercises too) autobiographies of successful entrepreneurs (and much more), and delving into my own past experiences and how I had overcome all the challenges – I had it!
Ideas popped. I could see what was missing in what I was reading! #Vision had always been my ‘thing’ and no one had really ‘got it’ fully in explaining how you do it with real emotional connection that has lasting, powerful and subconscious embedding. Writing, affirmations, inspirational quotes began to flow out of me. Through trial, error and finally success I discovered how to create a process based upon my own transformational experiences to help people to overcome their challenges, break through their barriers and, in a much more I.M.P.A.C.T™ ful way, to achieve success in creating the life they really wanted.
When you look back and no longer feel the pain but can see the gift in what has happened you become so much stronger and resourceful than before
Sharing the process, (don’t usually do slides), we had a few tech hitches, especially with setting up the meditation music I use for opening creativity. Truly? The physical environment was not quite right. But the vibrations and energy were! So we went ahead and afterwards people were able to Draw their ‘One Big Thing I Want to Achieve This Year’ and I am humbled to receive #gratitude – so job done!
Yes! Group received my Certificate of Gratitude through my global lifetime partnership with https://www.b1g1.com/businessforgood/ for taking part. This verified that My Wonderful Life Coach™ purchased, on their behalf, Life-Saving Clean Water for a Whole Year for 10 People in Malawi and Planted 15 Forest Trees to Help Restore the Environment.
Remember My Why? Create a Wonderful World. We cannot do it alone. So for me B1G1 is a perfect vehicle for meeting the UN 17 Sustainable Development Goals. This is yet another way to change and renew the world, through giving that improves the natural world as well as our Hearts, Minds, Bodies and Spirits.
We finished with 3 Special Bonuses to ‘Clear Your Mind Clutter’, join an upcoming new Beta ‘Online Visioneering Discovery Adventure and ‘Top Ten Tips to Breakthrough Your Barriers’.
A night to remember!
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Have a Wonderful Day,
Valerie
